Tuesday, March 16, 2010

So What's Your Next Step?



Steps are important because every step you take, leads you into another phase of your life. There’s a next step to take in every facet of life - in your education, in your relationships, in your career e.t.c– someday, you’re going to have to take it.


On taking steps, let’s focus particularly on a critical aspect which is - taking the next step to living your dreamand doing something that you are passionate about, and you can make a living out of. There’s no better way to learn than through real life experiences.

So, here I was – in my thirties – not sure what to do, about taking the next step with my career. I’d been working in ExxonMobil, heading the Human Resource department, for several years. It was a nice job with lots of benefits, good pay, good working environment, the kind of job you’d give an arm and a leg to have. But I got to a point when I said to my friends and my family - I want to quit!

They thought I was crazy and deep down within me, I thought, maybe I was, but I felt very strongly about going out on my own and doing my own thing. Yes, it was a risk, yes I was afraid, but deep within my soul, I felt it was something I had to do.                 

After tossing the thought back and forth in my mind, I wrote my resignation letter and handed it in. I was asked by management several times if I really wanted to take this step, but there was no looking back. I had made up my mind, i was closing one door; and opening another.

A company that I had registered when I moved back to Nigeria-Vic Lawrence & Associates-was then about to go into its full operations.


That’s all we’ll take for today, but whilst I continue to tell you this long story over the coming weeks, let’s chat about some of your stories.                                                                 

Is there is a big decision swinging like a pendulum above your head? What’s your next step? Are you going take it? Do you want to take it?                                         
 Are you afraid of taking it? Are you unsure about taking it? 

                                                                        
Send me your comments, let’s talk….
And don’t forget – if you can think it, you can do it!

5 comments:

  1. This is a very kind gesture and a welcomed initiative. Looking forward to sharing in your experiences and picking out some lessons. Kudos

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  2. Dear Mo, Taking steps can be difficult. As i write this, I’m torn in between three very great guys, and I’m wondering which one is Mr Right. It’s confusing because I don’t want to get to a point where I regret my decision.

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  3. @ Augusta... I was a 400 level undergraduate studying Medicine in one of the local Universities. I was not fulfilled in my chosen course, and I had been battling with the decision to continue my studies, or to pull out and go to another course. I took a decision to leave my course of study. It was a difficult one, that everyone found it difficult to accept – my parents, my friends, everyone thought I’d been brainwashed. Today, eight years afterwards, I look back at the decision I made, and I’m happy I made it.

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  4. Dear Mo,
    This is a very nice initiative you have here creating an avenue for people to air their views.I am about to a take a bold step moving back home after being abroad for a while studying.Though I don't have a job waiting for me in Nigeria yet but i feel its the right step to take.This is also to mention my fears of coming to face the unemployment situation in the country.Please what advise would you give regarding this.I wouldn't mind working for a talented persona like you.Keep the good work going!

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  5. Dear Mo,
    Decisions are quite powerful and could alter ur world, positively or otherwise but can be really hard to make especially if it has to do with quiting a job to follow your dreams. my present job has done nothing but keep me going even though i want more and i feel stuck and bored keeping up with it. in as much as i would love to follow my dreams, am afraid of what lies in between quiting my job and realising my dreams.

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